The Psychology of Winning
                    The 10 Qualities of a Total Winner

                                                     Denis Waitley
Quality 1:  Positive Self-Expectancy 
"Life is a self fulfilling prophecy. True winners go into every event expecting to win."
What this quote means is that we always want to win and achieve our goals. The way to win is by doing the hard work that you can. This can make your future become successful. It can help your life and make it easier for you. Other people will see you as a successful person from the way you won the goals.


Quality 2: Positive Self-Motivation 
"True winners dig deep and find motivation inside themselves to get through that tough task or to learn a new skill."

What this means is anything is possible. If you do the hard things, it won't be hard anymore. You can achieve the goals even if you think it's impossible to do. Also always gotta believe in yourself and make your way to your goals. People attempt to reach their goals but they seems to gave up because they thought it's impossible for them to achieve it. Don't give up because what if you were very close to achieving it and you didn't see it coming.

Quality 3: Positive Self-Image

"True winners are confident and view themselves as competent, valuable human beings."

Always think positive about yourself, don't think negative about yourself. If you think negative, you'll feel sad and won't have encourage to what you want to do and be yourself. If you think positive about yourself, you will be happy and you can be yourself all the time. Even if people thinks about you in a negative way, don't let them 

 Quality 4: Positive Self-Direction

You gotta have direction if you are going to go anywhere. True winners know where they are going. Their sense of direction comes from the self and not from outside influences like parents or friends.

What this means is that people like to take the right path that takes them to a better life. 

Quality 5: Positive Self-Control

Total winners can sacrifice immediate pleasure for a gain in the future. Delayed gratification is of immense value in reaching your goals.

What this means is that we have to have positive mind and self-control to our body. This can help us feel much better about ourselves and around people.

Quality 6: Positive Self-Discipline

You have to discipline yourself or else someone else will discipline you into doing what they want you to do. Total winners have the power to discipline and take control of their lives. For starters this is a great way to be successful since you have control over yourself. Without this you would be foolish and eventually it will affect you in the bad way. This can help you not get distracted. I wonder how many people actually do have this. If so how did they manage to develop it. 

 

Quality 7: Positive Self-Esteem

Your mood and outlook on life affect the way you see the world and how you interact in it. Total winners are positive, powerful people who make people feel good and provide a good vibe to those around him/her.

Quality 8: Positive Self-Dimension

Total winners like in the present. They know that now is all there is. They don’t get caught up in the past or worry about the future. They simply handle the business that they can handle which is the stuff going on today, now.  What this means is that 

Quality 9: Positive Self-Awareness
Total winners are aware of their power. They understand that they can be anything with enough effort and determination.

Quality 10: Positive Action

Total winners take positive action in their business and with their friends and family. They are uplifting and motivating individuals who inspire the best from themselves and other